In todays society many people find it hard to just be them, as social media and other platforms have shown us what it is to be the perfect person . We all have it in our minds that we have to follow trends or anything that others do to be accepted or to fit in and create relationships with others . However it is better to accept who you are as a person and stand out from the crowd being unique and who you truly are as that is what people recognise more than people who are to afraid to take the step of being distinctive. If everybody was the same there would be nobody to recognise unique talents, looks , personalities and other factors that build up a human. Life would be so boring and plane if we were all trying to be each other.
Standing out from the crowd allows us to grow into our purpose of life helping us find our passions and dreams as you do not care what others think or even what others are doing , we do not want to get into our elderly years regretting our lives and wishing we did the things we were contemplating when we were younger and had all the opportunities right in front of us to take and make the most of our lives, if we do not take the risk we will never know if things will work out However either way you can gain success from it or experience that you can take into the future with you for later life making you stronger and wiser only making you grow as a person more and more.
Being our selves and not caring what others think only bring the positive to our lives once you start doing this you will start to notice the most joyful relief as you no longer need to constantly worry about how to fit in or your next step to impress others , you will also start to notice that the most wonderful people start to come into your life , the people who you connect with on so many levels for example my experience is with my Boyfriend who I've been with fir nearly two years, I have always struggled since a young age feeling like nobody gets me as a person so I always tried to fit in and be accepted wanting lots of friends or people to like me however once I left high school I started to realise my self worth . I knew that being my self would get me much further and make me so much happier than trying to hard , That is when I met my boyfriend . I never thought I could get so lucky to meet someone so amazing , I have never connected with anybody else on a deep level as much as I have with him , you find the people who love you for who you are , you have nothing to hide as these people accept you for who you truly are .When this happened that really showed me that accepting my self was the best decision I made .
Of course we all find it hard to fit in especially in school when popularity and friendship groups is everything , it is only natural to feel this kind of way , I am sure everybody goes through feeling lost in themselves it is a part of growing up But eventually over time we find our inner selves when we start to explore different types of Religions , Hobbies ,jobs , passions and so on it creates a sense of fulfilment and feeling whole . We should focus on what makes us happy even if for example in a town all individuals were one certain Religion and you fee like you should also follow that religion too just to fit in , why should you if that doesn't make you happy? only you can take control of your life as it is only you living your life . It becomes easier after a while it may take some time but you will be so thankful you took the step of believing in yourself . So many benefits come with it and we should all help each other uplifting one another helping to allow others to feel like they can be themselves no matter what .
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